Struggling Teens and a Compass for Living

July 9, 2009

in A Next Step

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Spiritual progress, not spiritual perfection, is a fundamental goal of recovery.  Progress needs a goal for its movement.  To that end, the four absolutes as developed by the Oxford Group, honesty, purity, unselfishness and love, provide a guide for struggling teens seeking to grow along spiritual lines.

These principles, which align with the spiritual values of the world’s religious traditions, become practical tools for a young person in recovery when they regard their behavior in relationship to these goals.   Am I being pure in my motivations?  Was that an honest response?  What does love demand of me here?  Can I become more unselfish?  These are the types of questions that arise from our students when they are using the absolutes as a compass to guide their journey.

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